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49 pages 1 hour read

Bolu Babalola

Honey & Spice

Fiction | Novel | Adult | Published in 2022

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Themes

Love and the Risk of Betrayal

The book’s narrative and character trajectories rely heavily on the theme of love and the risk of betrayal. This is essential to the novel as a romance narrative, in which personal growth and happiness are aligned with a secure relationship. Kiki’s character growth over the course of the novel entails learning that love includes a risk of being hurt, and mature love will accept that risk and prove resilient to challenge and loss. The novel presents both negative and positive models of partners and relationships, navigating the balance between self-preservation and vulnerability.

Kiki’s first experience with the threat of loss occurs when her mother is ill with cancer and becomes frail as a result of aggressive treatments. Feeling the need to protect and look after her younger sister, and convinced her own emotional needs would be a drain on her already burdened mother and father, Kiki adopts a strategy of repressing and denying her emotional needs. This strategy of oppression is reinforced when her one attempt to find an outlet of joy, a party with her friends, results in Nile making unwanted advances, lying to Kiki in an attempt to engage her sexual compliance, then lying about the encounter to Rianne. When Rianne cuts off communication out of a sense of hurt and betrayal, Kiki reacts in the same manner, cutting off contact with her other friends and school in general. When Rianne reaches out, Kiki is still choosing to isolate and repress, and so does not respond to the overtures. Only when Rianne is in person before her does she allow communication to open up, and the discussion allows reconciliation and recovery.

Her experience with Zack, however, teaches Kiki that holding herself apart and attempting to shut down feelings doesn’t protect her from hurt or betrayal. Zack’s aggressive pursuit of her after she breaks up with him, though motivated by injured pride, leads to a humiliating public confrontation, and then to even more humiliation online when he posts lies and a picture she did not consent to sharing. Even involvement of the most superficial kind, Kiki learns, still left her open to manipulation and attack. Thus, when Zack makes his public accusations, she chooses to isolate again, still seeing that as the appropriate response. Her feelings for Malakai frighten her, so she chooses to alienate him and bring an end to their friendship, cutting off, as she sees it, any possibilities for further emotional investment or, later, betrayal.

The love and support of her friends Aminah, Shanti, and Chioma helps Kiki see this is not the emotionally mature, or effective, response. They encourage her to be honest about what she feels for Malakai, rather than continuing to find distance and refuge in the claim that theirs was a “fake” relationship. Malakai’s confession through his film contains what he sees as his own betrayal—he felt he wasn’t supportive enough of what Kiki was going through. But Kiki realizes that the bigger loss is to be without, or not be honest about, her true feelings. Being loving and vulnerable at the same time, the conclusion suggests, allows Malakai and Kiki a new and stronger connection, one no longer inhibited by avoidance or fear.

Community Versus Competition

The novel explores the nature and role of community and competition and how these are on a continuum in a complex society such as a university campus. Through its references to social and other public media, the novel asks questions about how personal lives are played out in the public sphere, and how this can impact on a sense of togetherness or isolation. As the novel progresses, it shows the characters coming together in an increasingly coherent and supportive way, reflecting Kiki’s personal journey from suspicious disengagement to open involvement.

Kiki’s preference to remain independent of social factions or groups, which represents an earlier stage in her emotional maturity, is tested by her wish to advise, influence, and lead by example, and this tension between community and independence, cooperation and competition, is explored across several dimensions of the novel. On the personal dimension, Kiki’s preference to self-exclude is the result of being wounded by betrayal, and Bolu Babalola presents this self-defensiveness as a position that Kiki grows out of as she moves toward fulfilling and rewarding relationship with friends and a lover.

Kiki’s larger values are in support of community, and she feels proud believing that her show, Brown Sugar, has helped unite women across the various cliques of Blackwell. She is distressed when she realizes that Blackwell’s women are arguing over Malakai and moves to neutralize what she sees as a threat. At the same time, while she wants other women to relate and cooperate, Kiki initially chooses not to engage in this herself. She remains aloof and avoids social interactions, feeling she can be safe if she stays with known entities like Aminah, and convinced that being on the margins will make her advice more valuable to others. When she realizes her social avoidance has hurt Aminah and made her look hypocritical and judgmental to her peers, Kiki struggles to let down her guard and include herself in social interactions, confessing to Shanti and Chioma and attending events like Ty’s birthday party. The friendships she develops as a response prove a rich reward in terms of emotional support and guidance when the girls get her out of her funk over breaking up with Malakai.

Malakai begins as competition, as Kiki first views him as an adversary—the kind of Wasteman she needs to warn the other girls about—and then as a competitor for Dr. Miller’s esteem. The suggestion of a fake dating relationship to further their projects suggests that Kiki, at this point in her emotional maturity, doesn’t see cooperation as rewarding. Being with Malakai not only turns out to be personally rewarding, but it also brings Kiki more social interactions, helping her make new acquaintances as well as boosting the profile of her show. Solitude, she finds, is not as rewarding as having a supportive social network after all.

Still, the novel suggests there is a time and place for competition. Simi says she challenged Kiki because she is grooming Kiki to take over leadership of Blackwell. Kiki agrees to get confrontational with Zack when she realizes his activities have been actively hurting the ACS and later, again, when she learns he has harassed and threatened other women. By running for president against Zack, Kiki suggests competition can be healthy when it gives a voting body options that will truly respect and represent their interests. In the end, however, events suggest that competition is less desirable than connection, cooperation, and community. Kiki feels great joy when she’s truly part of the group at the AfroWinter Ball. Zuri’s flirting with Kofi spurs Aminah to admit to Kofi what she feels for him, hastening their connection. Moreover, her reconciliation with Malakai and the happiness at being in love with him confirms Kiki’s new preference for being in relationship rather than alone, proving that connection is the more nourishing and rewarding option.

Cultural Pride and Heritage

Honey & Spice is filled with references to the racial and cultural identity of its protagonist and other characters and showcases the ways in which the young Black characters celebrate this. This sense of pride and heritage is shown to also be an active and collective defense against racial discrimination in the predominantly white setting of the novel.

Kiki’s pride in her Nigerian heritage, her acceptance into the Blackwell community, her interest in Yoruba language and culture, and her pride in the pan-African movement are all important parts of her identity, influences she cherishes and wants to preserve and protect. This sense of belonging to something greater helps her emotionally mature and also provides the safe space she needs to come to understand herself and her personal power.

Some of Kiki’s likes serve to highlight Black artists and entertainers who have done ground-breaking work, like superstar Beyoncé, or enormously popular if critically underrated works like Sisqó’s “Thong Song” or the movie Boomerang, a romantic comedy starring Eddie Murphy. Aminah uses Fenty products, the hair and makeup line developed by the singer Rihanna, who was born in Barbados, and who developed Fenty to cater to an inclusive range of skin tones and hair types. With these references, Babalola celebrates the accomplishments of Black artists and shows Kiki’s affinity for and identification with African and Caribbean cultures more broadly. Kiki’s enjoyment of Afrofuturistic speculative fiction and admiration for a pan-African movement that unites peoples from across African homelands and the African diaspora show her embrace of these forward-thinking cultural movements built around visions of unity, cooperation, and self-determination. The goals of these broader movements offer the freedom and opportunities Kiki wants for herself.

Her facility with the Yoruba language and her clear love for all things Naija also show Kiki’s love and pride in her ancestral background. “Naija” is a word adopted by young Nigerians to describe an identity that includes pride in their country’s cultural and intellectual achievements and hope for a new political direction, one that promises more freedoms, opportunity, and international recognition. Naija conveys associations of vibrancy, artistic flair, a spirit of community and exploration, and confidence. Kiki feels connected to this vision and considers her heritage a key piece of her identity, a source of wisdom and strength. For instance, when she is in the library hiding after Zack’s video, Kiki looks at a book titled Heaven on Earth: Divine Power in Ancient Yorubaland and thinks, “Maybe I could tap into my inner celestial being and transcend this situation totally” (308). Several of the girls are wearing Ankara prints for the AfroWinter ball, homage to Nigerian fashion and the colorful variety of these traditional West African textiles. In her yellow two-piece Ankara outfit, with an outline that flatters her shape, Kiki says, “I couldn’t wear a coat over this; it would be an insult to my ancestors” (326). Kiki’s ongoing connection to Nigeria is confirmed by her memories of and plans for holiday visits to Lagos.

Having this cosmopolitan background, Kiki becomes exasperated with the insular, Anglo-centric attitudes of so many of her Whitewell colleagues. For instance, she views instances of white students performing music by Black artists not as appreciation but as cultural appropriation. An even more egregious example of cultural appropriation is illustrated in Rianne and Amari’s description of their white colleague at their summer school in Kenya who embraced African culture because it felt exotic and different to him, more “natural,” a veiled way of saying he considers the culture less sophisticated or evolved. In attempting to behave like a native when he isn’t one, including adopting an accent, their colleague’s behavior becomes insulting rather than reflecting sincere engagement or curiosity.

Her cultural pride in her heritage as well as a preference for forms of expression rooted in Black cultures may be one reason Kiki prefers spaces that are exclusively populated by other Black people. Her white classmates aren’t individually distinct to her, as when she calls the young men in the crowd around her recording studio a James or a Francis; Kiki views her white colleagues as a collective force that is, when not overtly hostile, an obstacle to her aims. She prefers not to associate with the Black professor who is not sufficiently anti-racist, as demonstrated by a talk where he urged young Black men to stay out of trouble by trying harder to assimilate to the white culture. An extension of this exclusivity is the lack of other ethnicities in the book; there are no Middle Eastern or Asian characters, for example. This may reflect the geographical locale where the book is set, but it results in a stark opposition between the two elements of Whitewell and Blackwell. Zack, the only multi-ethnic character and the one who proposes Black-white interfacing, chooses to associate with whites expressing anti-Black sentiments, which draws the division between the two elements all the more strongly.

This exclusivity might be the book’s comment on how to create and maintain safe spaces within a dominant culture that can be hostile, thus allowing for the kind of personal expression and growth that Kiki is able to experience. Another strategy for preserving cultural pride is demonstrated by the women running for the board of the ACS, who call themselves the Dahomey Amazons after a famous female military regiment formed to support the Kingdom of Dahomey. The name suggests the women are willing to start to dismantle the ingrained racism that surrounds them. Kiki’s cultural pride extends to the hope that her culture can be more widely recognized, appreciated, and celebrated, a joyful and optimist approach in line with her identification with Naija colleagues, pan-Africanism, and Afrofuturism.

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