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Sara Ahmed

Living a Feminist Life

Nonfiction | Book | Adult | Published in 2017

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Themes

Living as Feminist Resistance

One of the central themes of the book is the concept of Living as Feminist Resistance. Throughout the book, Ahmed argues that if the powers and structures of the world intend to keep certain people (women, queer people, disabled people) out, devalue their lives, and in some cases literally destroy their lives, then the mere act of living and surviving in these circumstances is, in and of itself, a form of active resistance. This runs counter to some claims, both within and outside feminist movements, that the personal and the political are two separate things. For instance, Ahmed discusses the accusations against lesbian feminism as being too identity-focused, which implies that focusing on the way one lives is a “weak substitute for political struggle or a withdrawal of feminist energy from that struggle” (213). Instead, Ahmed argues that the daily lived experiences of women are inherently tied to the political structures and institutions that keep women “in their place.”

Ahmed demonstrates willingness to share biographical details of her own experiences to showcase the ways the personal and the political are combined. In discussing her experiences of abuse from her father, she shows how the act of living her own life according to her own desires and refusing to relinquish her will to the control of her father is, in her father’s eyes at least, an existential threat to the patriarchal power structures that her father and other men benefit from and work to uphold. Any threat, real or perceived, is then met with violence, which clearly connects this theme to the second theme of The Dynamics of Power.

Similarly, in the second part on diversity work, Ahmed also argues that when a person does not fit an institutional or societal norm simply by being the person they are, then the mere fact of their existence within that institution or society is itself a form of protest. This is true even if that person works to “pass” within the institution and not make demands or complain about their marginalized status.

The theme of living as resistance appears in other places as well. In the Introduction, Ahmed argues that feminist theory can (and should) be generated not only in isolated academic settings but “at home,” in the spaces where women live, work, and exist. She does not only mean the literal house one lives in, however, but in women’s real daily contexts and lived experiences. This relates to her ideas of praxis (i.e., the combined construction of knowledge and practical application of theory). This idea is echoed in Chapter 9 during her argument for lesbian feminism, when she states that living as a lesbian offers a unique perspective on white male dominance, and thus unique and effective tools for addressing that dominance.

Finally, in her first conclusion, Ahmed calls on the words of Audre Lorde to reiterate this theme. While advocating for self-care in her killjoy survival kit, Ahmed quotes Lorde: “caring for [oneself] is not self-indulgence, its self-preservation, and that is an act of political warfare” (237). By drawing on this quote, Ahmed reasserts her claim that in a world that wants to destroy the feminist killjoy, merely insisting on their own survival is inherently an “act of political warfare.”

The Dynamics of Power

Another theme of the book is the Dynamics of Power that women and other marginalized groups come up against, and how those power dynamics are constructed and maintained. As mentioned in the first theme, one example where the structures of power become visible is in the abuse Ahmed suffers from her father. She demonstrates the way accusations of willfulness—i.e., simultaneously possessing a will that lacks discipline and daring to want too much—is used to justify any violence enacted upon the willful subject. In the act of willfulness, Ahmed threatens the power structures that her father then feels he must defend with an act of violence. Furthermore, this act of violence is not labeled violence, but necessary punishment and discipline, precisely because the willful subject is considered the one lacking in discipline. This is just one level of the dynamics of power at play throughout the text.

Moreover, in Chapter 7, Ahmed discusses fragility in similar terms. She uses the example of the broken jug in Adam Bede, which the mother blames for damaging itself by claiming the jug contains some inherent willfulness that made it jump from her hand. Like Ahmed’s father, the woman justifies the jug’s brokenness by citing some inherent quality that required it to break. In this way, Ahmed shows how power dynamics function to blame the damaged person for their own damage, rather than acknowledging structures of power as the cause. 

Two of the most valuable explanations of these power dynamics come in the form of Ahmed’s two central metaphors: the traffic flow and the brick wall. In Chapter 2, Ahmed explores the concept of directionality using the metaphor of traffic to illustrate the way directionality becomes first prediction, and then command. This traffic flow gains force and pressure as more people follow it, making it more difficult to resist that flow and go in a different direction. Power structures in the force of traffic flows exist in several of Ahmed’s concepts, such as gender fatalism and the path of happiness, which contain unspoken threat of force.

The brick wall, meanwhile, functions not by forcing movement in particular directions, but by obstructing any movement, passage, or change whatsoever. Ahmed discusses the idea of the brick wall at length in Chapter 9. These walls move beyond simple metaphor to become real obstacles that block certain people from passing through institutions or transforming those institutions. They are defense mechanisms, like borders, that marginalized bodies (women, people of color, etc.) hit up against in their efforts of survival.

Focusing on white male institutions, Ahmed shows how these walls are power structures built by solidifying history and tradition into codified rules, which then defend themselves from threat or change, often violently. For Ahmed, one of the most dangerous elements of this violence is the way it remains invisible to the outside and can only be seen or felt by those who come up against it in the act of living their lives.

The Importance of Intersectionality

The third, and most vital, theme of the text is the Importance of Intersectionality. Ahmed signals this importance early in the introduction by paraphrasing feminist writer Flavia Dzodan and her famous essay “My Feminism Will Be Intersectional or It Will Be Bullshit,” published on the feminist blog Tiger Beatdown. Intersectionality is a complex concept that refers to the ways many layers and forms of discrimination and oppression due to identity such as race, gender, sexuality, disability, and socio-economic status, combine and intersect, becoming inextricably tangled and inseparable. Activist and lawyer Kimberlé Crenshaw coined the term in the 1970s, referring to “interlocking systems of oppression.” Audre Lorde once described it thus: “There is no such thing as a single-issue struggle because we do not live single-issue lives” (qtd in El Gharib, Sarah. “What Is Intersectionality and Why Is It Important?” Global Citizen).

Throughout the book, Ahmed offers examples of how intersectionality influences feminist issues, and why she believes it to be an important and necessary aspect of any effective feminist strategies of resistance. For instance, she offers accounts from her experiences with an abusive father and notes the ways these stories can easily be co-opted by racists who point to her father’s identity as a Pakistani Muslim rather than as a man. White feminists may dismiss these experiences by falling back on racist stereotypes about Arab and Muslim men, thus engaging in imperialist white savior tropes of “the white woman saving the brown woman from the brown man” (Mehra, Nishta J. “Sara Ahmed: Notes from a Feminist Killjoy.” Guernica). White feminists must resist this racist mode of thought. For Ahmed and other feminists of color, it is important to acknowledge and understand the ways gender, race, religion, and even sexuality intersect and cannot be isolated from each other in her experiences and in other similar experiences.

Ahmed insists on the absolute necessity of intersectionality, especially in Part 3, which draws the fragile bodies of women, queer people, and disabled people together under the same banner. All three groups overlap and intersect in vital ways, coming up against similar walls and blockages, broken by similar systems of oppression. Echoing her statement in the Introduction, Ahmed argues that any kind of feminism deserving of the name must be inclusive of other marginalized groups, and pick up queer and disabled causes as their own. This, she insists, is not only for the good of those marginalized communities, but for the good of the entire feminist collective army. To use Ahmed’s imagery, it is only when all the shattered pieces are gathered that they can build themselves into the killjoy “army of arms” that Ahmed imagines.

Importantly, Ahmed even enacts her vision of intersectionality through her citational practices. As she argues in the Introduction, citations are bricks that build up the white male institution. Therefore, to battle this, she uses feminist and intersectional citation “bricks” instead. This is clear in the fiction she cites, such as Mrs. Dalloway by Virginia Woolf and the work of George Eliot, as well as the feminist films she analyzes.

It is most powerful, however, in the theorists and thinkers she refers to most often, including Judith Butler, Adrienne Rich, bell hooks, Audre Lorde, and Gloria Anzaldua, who are all intersectional feminists inhabiting various identities of woman, queer, lesbian, white, Black and Chicana. By citing these writers, Ahmed not only incorporates their intersectional feminist theory with her own but invites their many different identities into the intersectional feminist space she is building.

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