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Caroline Elizabeth Sarah Norton

We Have Been Friends Together

Fiction | Poem | Adult | Published in 1850

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Literary Devices

Form & Meter

“We Have Been Friends Together” is composed of 24 lines, which are divided into three stanzas of eight lines each. Norton’s poem can be classified as a ballad based on its form. A ballad is a type of narrative verse that can be either musical or poetic. A ballad’s rhyme scheme is consistent. In each quatrain, or set of four lines, either the first and third line will rhyme (ABAC) or the second and fourth lines will rhyme (ABCB). Norton employs the ABCB rhyme scheme. In the rhyming lines, Norton uses ballad meter, which comprises four lines that alternate between iambic tetrameter (four sets of two syllables, or metrical feet, first unstressed then stressed) in the A and C lines and iambic trimeter (three metrical feet, unstressed then stressed) for the B lines. Ballads also generally employ a repeating line or refrain. In “We Have Been Friends Together,” the first lines of each stanza repeat with only slight variation. Likewise, the last three lines of each stanza are also repeated, with minor but significant changes. A poetic ballad is generally known for its plot-driven narrative detailing a string of events that build in emotion. The quick pace of ballad meter adds urgency to the unfolding of these events, making them seem inevitable. Norton’s speaker moves from noting how the pair have been “friends together” (Line 1) for a long period and have been “gay” (Line 9) to being “sad” (Line 17) and disappointed, the last emotions threatening the survival of the friendship.

Natural Imagery

Norton’s imagery is dominated by descriptions of the natural world, particularly weather and temperature. The pleasing elements of the relationship are represented by images of spring, growth, warmth, and the sun while the negative elements are represented by decay, coldness, and shade. Immediately the speaker notes the pair of friends have existed in both “sunshine and in shade” (Line 2). The state of “sunshine” (Line 2) or happiness is further expressed in Stanza Two as a fountain “gushing” (Line 11) with “hope” (Line 11). This flow is “warm and joyous” (Line 12), suggesting a fertile emotional time between the friends. However, in Stanza Three, the growth is tempered by time and tragedy. As the speaker explains, optimism “slumber’d” (Line 19) in its “grass-grown graves” (Line 19) causing “bitter tears” (Line 18). Adding to this darkness is the friends’ argument over the “light word” (Line 8, Line 16). Their exchange has aligned the friend further with shadow. The speaker hopes the “cloud” (Line 6), with its “sullen” (Line 14) expression that “glooms” the friend’s face, will eventually “clear” (Line 22) so they can go back to the “sunshine” (line 2) they once felt regarding their friendship. Since Norton is vague about what exactly has been said between the friends, we can’t know the outcome, but the common imagery regarding landscape helps to show the conflict. In 1830, images of weather and landscape were abundant in poetry. Aware of their own environment, the reader would draw on these familiar notations to understand the emotional landscape Norton conveys.

Use of Refrain

The use of the multiple refrains (three in total), besides being part of the ballad form, works to enhance the emotion of Norton’s poem. As the speaker is afraid of losing their friend to the misunderstanding created by the “light word” (Line 8, Line 16), their repeated insistence that “we have been friends together” (Line 1, Line 7) is understandable. The refrains work as an indicator of the insistence on the speaker’s part that this break must be temporary. Their friendship is so strong because they have run the gambit of being both incredibly happy (Line 9, Line 15) as well as “sad” (Line 17, Line 23). Therefore, according to the speaker, the dismay on the speaker’s face, their hurt, must change because the speaker and the friend have always been “together” (Line 1, Line 7, Line 9, Line 15, Line 17, Line 23). Even though the refrain describing the pain on the friend’s “brow” (Line 6, Line 14, Line 22) suggests again and again the severity of the situation, the speaker cannot believe that a break is truly possible. This is conveyed in the third refrain, which concentrates on the impossibility that something could “part [them] now” (Line 8, Line 16, Line 24). The repeating refrains underscore the friends’ long history and amplify the seriousness of the threat of the friendship’s doom, the friend’s hurt, and the speaker’s desperation.

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